Solved, Our IT guy said of coarse its not the host the return isn't making it to you and yes VERIZON DOES block sites (IPs) sometimes for bandwith control or other reasons. I asked the techs at verizon several times to try or check and see if the host and run the host IP themselves they kept saying it was host and not needed. Thats either not knowing or wanting others know of there practices you decide, sounds a little NSA to me lol.
Long story short he had me try HOTspot shield 2 days ago and not one issue, tried Mumble wouldnt connect, then actived shield and presto, the few others in the area same thing no problems.